The recent Chandigarh stalking incident has shocked the country, and drawn strong reactions from the public and politicians alike. Even as political leaders of various hues have been clamouring for the BJP government to take immediate and strict action over the incident, the Haryana BJP Vice-President Ramveer Bhatti once again turned to the familiar resort of victim-blaming.
Varnika Kundu, a 29-year-old woman was driving home a little after midnight on August 4, when she was allegedly chased and harassed by two men in a white SUV. One of these men was allegedly Haryana BJP chief Subhash Barala’s son, Vikas Barala.
Speaking to the media, Bhatti tried to deflect outrage from Vikas by questioning Varnika over being out after midnight. He said that it was the parents’ responsibility to ensure that their daughters return home in time.
“The girl should not have gone out at 12 in the night. Why was she driving so late in the night? The atmosphere is not right. We need to take care of ourselves,” Bhatti reportedly told CNN-News18.
While many, including others from the party, condemned Bhatti’s remarks, dozens of women took to social media to creatively shut down this victim-blaming. They posted photos of themselves on nights out in cities across India, with the hashtag ‘Ain’t No Cinderella’.
Drawing reference to the popular fairytale in which Cinderella had to return home before midnight, the women argued that they shouldn’t be forced to suffer a similar curfew in 2017.
Dear regressive India,
— pooja (@queenpsays) August 7, 2017
I will do as I please, night or day. Don't ever think you have the right to stop me #AintNoCinderella pic.twitter.com/oHIKgbhoeA
No one gets to tell us what to do and what not. (Especially not the BJP louts!) It's our life!! #AintNoCinderella pic.twitter.com/dcU0XH2KIK
— Hasiba (@HasibaAmin) August 7, 2017
What I wear, till what time I stay out, whom I hang around with,bla bla.. is none of your business bcoz I #AintNoCinderella pic.twitter.com/hlFEE0y2Qq
— Surbhi Dwivedi (@DwivediSurbhi) August 7, 2017
If I'm out at 12am, it DOES NOT mean I'm to be raped, molested, chased. My dignity is my right 24X7 #AintNoCinderella pic.twitter.com/6SN0I5NbSN
— Sharmistha Mukherjee (@Sharmistha_GK) August 7, 2017
Dear Regressive India,
— Rekha Navani (@rekha_navani) August 7, 2017
We ain't damsels in distress. We are independent & we don't need you to curb our freedom#AintNoCinderella here! pic.twitter.com/mulliSsKwY
No one tells me what to wear, what to eat, when to go out & how to dress. Keep your regressive mindset to yourself #AintNoCinderella pic.twitter.com/e3WqAKuK3f
— Angkita Dutta (@angkitadutta) August 7, 2017
Many of the tweets had a simple statement to make – women have just as much right to move around in the city, and have a fun evening.
Hi to all regressive authorities, from a cab, past midnight, dressed like I'm going to a party, but I'm actually not. #AintNoCinderella pic.twitter.com/Dhrwflck9i
— Surekha Rao (@surerao) August 7, 2017
#AintNoCinderella pic.twitter.com/4BoPCCIlzG
— Gayathri Devi (@gayathri2108) August 7, 2017
Hey it's midnight and I'm "out"!#AintNoCinderella pic.twitter.com/oKFNwtVIz0
— Palak Sharma (@Palaksharmanews) August 7, 2017
Don't teach me what to wear, what to eat and when to go out.. #AintNoCinderella #ItsMyLife pic.twitter.com/QYWcxQSxm4
— Bose Shruti (@Tinni_Aphrodite) August 7, 2017
It's midnight and I can be wherever I want to be, because I #AintNoCinderella
— Pooja Khatri (@PoojaKhatri2802) August 7, 2017
Enjoying party with friends#GirlsNightOut @LambaAlka pic.twitter.com/i9A3l8G3aq
#AintNoCinderella The night is rightfully mine and no politician can point fingers at me for stepping out! pic.twitter.com/jkXa5EaOKR
— Sunayana Suresh (@sunayanasuresh) August 7, 2017
The night is ours, just like the day. #AintNoCinderella pic.twitter.com/JTdeGnycXz
— Angellica Aribam (@AngellicAribam) August 7, 2017
The message to Bhatti and others of his way of thinking was clear: It’s time to focus on perpetrators’ mentalities, and not continue to shame women for what they wear or when they are out of the house.
#AintNoCinderella
— Divyaprasanna (@divya96prasanna) August 7, 2017
It isn't about Day or Night
It's all about your Mind! pic.twitter.com/PU9tJcpUQh
Guess what BJP, it's midnight and I'm outside and this party is rad. You want me to stay home to be safe, your bad. #AintNoCinderella pic.twitter.com/5x7UrDo0Ot
— Poorva Sharma (@PforPoorva) August 7, 2017
I am a free soul! I am a woman of today ! I live with my free will #AintNoCinderella pic.twitter.com/afSmmBdH6t
— seema (@seemaadhikari) August 8, 2017