Transgender and sexual minorities rights activist Akkai Padmashali demanded an apology from Raja Sabha Member of Parliament (MP) Sushil Kumar Modi for his remarks against legalising same-sex marriages. The Bharatiya Janata Party (BJP) MP from Bihar had recently raised the issue during Zero Hour in the Parliament alleging that left-liberal activists want to impose Western values in the country by promoting same-sex marriages. He strongly urged the courts to refrain from giving sanctions to same-sex marriages as they affect the ‘cultural ethos’ of the country.
Responding to this through an open letter addressed to Sushil Kumar, Akkai Padmashali expressed concern over the MP’s remarks and noted that gender is a spectrum and courts decide on the basis of the Constitution and not ‘cultural ethos’. Quoting BR Ambedkar, Akkai reiterated that constitutional morality is not a natural sentiment, but rather something that must be cultivated. She underlined her confidence in the Supreme Court to decide matters based on the Constitution and protect the right to equality and dignity of LGBTQIA+ citizens of India.
Here is the full text of Akkai Padmashali’s letter dated December 24, 2022, demanding an apology from the MP for the hurt he has caused to the LGBTQIA+ community through his remarks:
Dearest Sir,
I was deeply disturbed to see your speech in the Rajya Sabha warning against any legal recognition to same sex marriage. As a transgender person who is part of the “Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender Queer Intersex Jogappa Marladi ++ movement”, I believe that the right to marry should be applicable to all persons and not restricted to ‘Men’ and ‘Women’.
You oppose ‘same sex marriage’ as in your opinion marriage had to be seen as ‘pure’ and it means ‘biological man and biological female’. The point the LGBTQI movement has been making is that gender is a spectrum. Taking my own personal example, I was born a male, though I always knew that my identity was a woman. With the increase in awareness and my own confidence and strength, I have now transitioned to becoming a woman. However, in your definition, I am not a ‘biological woman’ and hence not entitled to get married. This denial of marriage to those of us who are not biologically women is a denial of the very principle of equality and the right to lead dignified lives.
Apart from me there are many others who are not biologically female or not biologically male. There are others who fall on the rainbow spectrum of gender. Surely all of us, not just biological men and women, have a right to participate in the institution of marriage? Not doing so violates our constitutional mandate of equality, dignity, and inclusiveness.
I am also surprised that you think that same sex marriages are not recognized in Indian culture and tradition. If anything, the rich cultural traditions of India have always made space for different kinds of love and different kinds of marriage. What you define as our centuries old traditions is not homophobic and transphobic but is inclusive of the diversity of the human family include homosexuals, bisexuals, intersex people, lesbians and transgenders.
You make the point that were same sex marriage to be recognized, it ‘would cause complete havoc with the delicate balance of personal laws in the country.’ Assuming that the court recognizes the marriage of all persons ( not merely biological men and biological women), through an amendment of the Special Marriage Act, then personal laws will remain untouched. So your fears seem to be unwarranted as the Supreme Court is considering the provisions of the Special Marriage Act alone. One hopes against hope that this technical clarification will allay your concerns and you will from a strong opponent become a fervent supporter of the recognition of the marriage of all persons under the Special Marriage Act!
I was surprised to see that in your speech you also advised the Court not to give ‘a ruling that goes against the nation’s cultural ethos, culture, and thoughts.’ To me, the Courts do not decide based on ‘cultural ethos’, but rather on the basis of the Constitution. The morality the judges are duty bound to apply is not popular morality but constitutional morality.
I would like to remind you of Babasaheb Ambedkar’s words when he said that, Constitutional morality is not a natural sentiment. It has to be cultivated. We must realise that our people have yet to learn it. Democracy in India is only a top dressing on an Indian soil which is essentially undemocratic.
It is the responsibility of the Courts to protect constitutional morality. I am confident that the Supreme Court will decide the matter based on the anvil of the Constitution and not cultural ethos and protect the right to equality and dignity of LGBTQI citizens of India.
Finally you were wrong to assume that this battle was by ‘left/liberal people’ who are ‘attempting to bring legal recognition to same-sex marriage.’ I would like to remind you that I am a part of the transgender community, which is very much part of Indian culture and tradition. I am fighting for the right to marry for all. Thereby I am fighting for the right to equality and dignity for all persons. Some of us may be left, other liberal, and yet others part of the hijra, transgender, and sexual minority communities. There is a rainbow spectrum of support for the right to marry for all persons. Our support for marriage for all is deeply rooted in the history and tradition of this land and our interest in the right to marry cannot be dismissed as an elite concern.
We urge you to consider tendering an apology to the LGBTQI community for the hurt that you have caused through your remarks.
Yours sincerely
Akkai Padmashali
Transgender and Sexual Minorities Rights Activist